Finding Jewellery That Feels Like You
Have you ever bought a beautiful piece of jewellery, only to find yourself rarely wearing it?
Perhaps it doesn’t quite match your everyday style, feels uncomfortable or isn’t practical for your lifestyle.
Choosing jewellery should be about more than simply finding something that looks beautiful. The best pieces are the ones that make you feel confident, complement your style and fit naturally into your everyday life.
Whether you’re investing in your first special piece, choosing an engagement ring or adding something new to your collection, here are seven tips to help you make the right choice.
1. Start With Your Personal Style
The first step is understanding what you naturally gravitate towards.
Do you prefer delicate, minimal jewellery, or are you drawn to bold statement pieces?
Some people love classic and understated designs, while others enjoy mixing different textures, shapes and styles.
Think about the jewellery you already wear:
Do you usually choose gold or silver tones?
Do you prefer simple designs or detailed pieces?
Are you drawn to gemstones or plain metal finishes?
Do you wear the same jewellery every day or change it depending on your outfit?
Your existing jewellery collection can tell you a lot about your personal preferences.
Choose something that feels like an extension of your personality rather than simply following a passing trend.
2. Consider How Often You’ll Wear It
One of the biggest considerations when choosing jewellery is how frequently you intend to wear it.
A necklace worn occasionally has different requirements from a ring that stays on your finger every day.
Think about your daily routine and the activities you regularly participate in.
For everyday jewellery, consider:
Comfortable designs that don’t interfere with daily activities.
Materials suitable for frequent wear.
Secure settings and practical fastenings.
Designs that complement multiple outfits.
For special occasion jewellery, you may have more freedom to experiment with elaborate shapes, larger gemstones and decorative details.
3. Choose the Right Metal
The metal you choose plays an important role in the appearance, durability and maintenance of your jewellery.
Sterling silver is a beautiful and versatile option that works well with both everyday and occasion wear.
Gold-plated sterling silver offers the warm appearance of gold and is particularly suitable for pieces worn occasionally.
Solid gold is worth considering for jewellery intended for regular use, particularly rings that experience more friction.
If you’re unsure which metal suits your requirements, speak to your jeweller before finalising your design.
The right material will depend on how the piece will be worn and how much maintenance you’re comfortable with.
4. Get Your Ring Size Right
When buying or commissioning a ring, getting the correct size is incredibly important.
A ring should feel comfortable and secure without being too tight or too loose.
There are a few ways to determine your ring size:
Visit a jewellery store: This is the most accurate option. Ask to have your finger professionally measured using the UK/RSA sizing system, where sizes are represented by letters.
Measure an existing ring: If you already own a ring that fits comfortably, you can measure its inside diameter to get an approximate size.
Use a ring sizing guide: A downloadable sizing guide can help provide an initial estimate, although it is not as accurate as professional measurement.
Remember that ring sizing can vary slightly depending on the width and design of the band.
When ordering a bespoke ring, always discuss sizing with your jeweller before production begins.
5. Think About Timeless Designs
Trends are fun, but jewellery is often something we want to enjoy for many years.
Classic designs tend to remain versatile and can be worn across different occasions and stages of life.
Some examples include:
Simple sterling silver necklaces.
Classic gold or silver bands.
Elegant gemstone rings.
Minimalist earrings.
Delicate pendants with personal meaning.
This doesn’t mean you should avoid unique or contemporary designs.
In fact, some of the most special jewellery pieces are those that break away from traditional styles.
The trick is choosing something you genuinely love rather than something you feel you should own because it is currently fashionable.
6. Don’t Be Afraid to Personalise Your Jewellery
One of the most beautiful things about handcrafted jewellery is the opportunity to create something that is completely personal.
Perhaps you have seen a design you love but would prefer a different stone, metal or shape.
Or maybe you have an idea for something that you’ve never seen anywhere else.
This is where bespoke jewellery becomes special.
Working directly with a jewellery designer gives you the opportunity to discuss your preferences and explore ways to bring your ideas to life.
At Anke Linden Jewellery, custom designs allow you to create jewellery that reflects your personal style and the moments that matter most to you.
Whether it’s a meaningful gift, an engagement ring or simply something you’ve always wanted, your design can become something truly unique.
7. Consider Quality Over Quantity
It can be tempting to buy multiple pieces of jewellery simply because they catch your eye.
However, building a collection around a few beautiful, carefully chosen pieces can be much more rewarding.
Think about investing in jewellery that:
Complements your existing collection.
Suits your lifestyle.
Is made from materials appropriate for its intended use.
Holds personal meaning.
Is something you will genuinely enjoy wearing.
A thoughtfully selected piece can become a lifelong favourite.
Make Your Next Jewellery Piece Something Special
Choosing jewellery should be an exciting experience.
From selecting the perfect metal to finding a design that represents your personality, every detail contributes to making a piece uniquely yours.
Whether you know exactly what you’re looking for or simply have an idea that you’d love to explore, bespoke jewellery gives you the opportunity to create something meaningful.
At Anke Linden Jewellery, every creation starts with an idea and the opportunity to turn it into something beautiful.
Have an idea for your next special piece?
Get in touch with Anke to discuss your requirements, explore custom designs and start creating jewellery that you’ll love wearing.

